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Redefining Stepparent Love: A New Perspective
Are you struggling with the pressure to love your stepchild as your own? You're not alone. In the journey of stepparenting, societal expectations often overshadow the reality of forming bonds with stepchildren.
The truth is, love doesn't always happen instantly. It's a gradual process influenced by various factors such as family history, past traumas, and loyalty binds. Instead of forcing feelings, what if we shifted our focus to mutual acceptance and respect?
Elf on the Shelf: A Month of Magical Mischief and Joy
Discover a month-long journey of enchanting Elf on the Shelf antics! Dive into the magic of holiday traditions and transform your home into a wonderland of joy. Join us for daily inspiration, step-by-step instructions, and a stress-relieving calendar to make your Elf on the Shelf experience truly magical. Download our calendar, shopping list, and get ready to create lasting memories with your family this festive season!
Stepkids in the Classroom:
As we usher in the back-to-school season, stepfamilies often find themselves entangled in a web of emotions and logistical challenges. Whether you're a devoted stepparent, a dedicated parent, or an understanding teacher working with stepchildren, this blog is your compass through potentially tricky situations.
Blended Love: Welcoming an "Ours Baby"
Welcoming an "Ours Baby" is a beautiful yet complex journey for stepmoms in blended families. As a stepmom myself, I understand the rollercoaster of emotions that comes with this experience. From navigating concerns about bonding and guilt to facing feelings of disappointment and jealousy, the journey of adding an "ours baby" brings forth unique challenges. Adding an "ours baby" to a blended family should be an exciting experience, and with the right support, it can be. It's important to acknowledge and address the mix of emotions that arise with open communication, empathy, and inclusion. Read on to learn more.
Toxic Tongues:
Discover the profound and lasting impacts of divorced parents bad-mouthing each other in front of their children. This blog post explores the emotional distress, damaged relationships, low self-esteem, increased conflict, and long-term consequences experienced by children. Learn how to address and prevent this harmful behavior to prioritize your children's well-being during and after divorce.
Breaking Down Barriers: The Power of Communication in Stepfamilies
Creating new relationships with stepfamily members can take time and patience, but another important factor essential for building strong bonds is communication. This may be easy to say, but stepparents and stepchildren face unique challenges that can make communication more difficult than that of those in nuclear families. In this blog, we'll explore strategies for breaking down communication barriers and ways stepparents can foster healthy communication in their stepfamily.
The Truth About Stepparenting:
Discover the truth about stepparenting that nobody talks about in our insightful blog. Stepparenting requires more than just love and patience; it demands navigating complex emotions, establishing boundaries, and finding support. Learn how to manage unexpected emotions, build a relationship with your stepchild, handle interactions with the ex, and find the support you need. Discover practical advice for blending families and maintaining self-care and a healthy relationship with your partner. If you're a stepparent or considering becoming one, this blog is a must-read to overcome the unique challenges and celebrate your successes along the way.
It’s Ok to Love Your Stepchild Differently
There are societal norms and pressure from mainstream media to love our stepchildren like our own. In this post Amelia Lane, certified stepfamily coach, is re-writing the narrative on the love stepparents and stepchildren are expected to feel for one another.
Who Should Come First in a Stepfamily?
We’re going to guess that you’ve probably heard just about everyone’s opinion on who they think should come first in your stepfamily. This can not only be frustrating but downright confusing for stepparents! We’re here today to give you our two cents on who we believe should come first – and it’s probably not who you think!...
Struggling to Connect with Your Stepchild?
If you find connecting with your stepchild anything but a walk in the park, you are not alone. Many stepparents either feel completely shut out or the relationship is far from what they had hoped and imagined it would be. Read to learn four ways to help you connect with your stepchildren.
5 Common Stepmom Mistakes…
As stepmoms, we want to do right by our partner, our stepchildren, and ourselves. The truth is, sometimes even the most well-intentioned stepmoms can make mistakes without even realizing it! We want to help you recognize, identify, and correct 5 of the most common stepmom mistakes.
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